Hmm. I have a new tenant- a male in his late 30's, early 40's, who is in the process of getting a divorce. I don't know if it's the fact that he's now single or that he's never lived in an apartment before, but he's been very "friendly".. I would like to hope it's just him trying to make friends. (D keeps teasing me that I'm "doing the carpenter guy downstairs") Anyway, about an hour ago I got a phone call from a relatively new female tenant who lives downstairs, across the foyer from him. She told me that twice now, he has stopped by her apartment at night, asking if he can look at her apartment (supposedly to see how she got all of her furniture to fit, being in a smaller apartment). The first time she said it didn't really bother her, but then last night he came by yet again, asking to see her apartment. WTF?? Then he asked if he could use her microwave, since he didn't have one. Uh.. HUH?? She young, and lives alone. Needless to say, she's now feeling very uncomfortable. She's never been in this situation before, and wonders what she should do (aside from tell him that she is not comfortable with his behavior)? This recent activity is making me question some behavior that I have found a bit odd myself.. maybe because I'm female, and very untrusting of (strange) men.

1.) He came by to drop off a deposit for his apartment, and I had accidentally forgot to take my keys out of my front door (but I have a screen door that was locked, so no one would have been able to take my keys anyways). But he mentioned to me that I shouldn't leave my keys out like that

2.) Every time he sees me without the baby, he asks me if she's asleep. (Ok, so that's not really "odd", but I wonder why he keeps asking??)

I dunno.. a couple other behaviors that have just been really "friendly", that I try not to blow out of proportion.. but it's hard not to when another tenant is now asking me what's up with the guy. I just hope he isn't a sex offender or something. The thought actually crossed my mind for a fleeting second, just after he moved in.